Monday, December 22, 2008
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
体罚 / Corporal punishment
比比近来有脾气暴躁的现象。晚上她玩得兴起有时会喊。如果叫她不可以，她可能会静个半分钟，然后又吵了。我没有耐性，警告到第三次，我就会告诉她“如果再喊，妈妈就打啦！”
她有时会不甘愿地跑到老远脸黑黑地坐着。
有时举手作打我状，那就会真正的惹火我。我就狠狠地打她的小手，让她知道被打有多痛。近几天她学会了不高兴/哭时大喊，是超高音的那种。又中了我的几个耳光。
老早老早告诉家婆千万千万不可以宠坏比比，小孩不从小教，三岁过后就很难把坏本性矫正过来。我讨厌没有礼貌，没有家教的小孩。可是，体罚能防止比比变怀吗？
Bibi has signs of bad temper recently. At nights when she is high from playing, she'll shout. If I ask her not to shout, she might be quiet for 30 seconds, before making noise again. I am impatient, on 3rd warning, I will tell her "If you shout again, I will beat you!"
Sometimes she will unwillingly moves to a corner and sit there with black face.
Sometimes she raises her hand and wanted to beat me! And that really set me "on". I would beat hard on her hand, let her know how painful it is to be beaten. In the last few days, she likes to scream when unhappy/crying, with super high pitch tone. I gave her a few slaps.
I told my mother inlaw since long ago to not spoil Bibi. Kids need to be educate since little, else it's very hard to correct their bad characteristics after 3 years old. I hate rude kids. But, will corporal punishment prevent Bibi from turning into a spoiled kid?
她有时会不甘愿地跑到老远脸黑黑地坐着。
有时举手作打我状，那就会真正的惹火我。我就狠狠地打她的小手，让她知道被打有多痛。近几天她学会了不高兴/哭时大喊，是超高音的那种。又中了我的几个耳光。
老早老早告诉家婆千万千万不可以宠坏比比，小孩不从小教，三岁过后就很难把坏本性矫正过来。我讨厌没有礼貌，没有家教的小孩。可是，体罚能防止比比变怀吗？
Bibi has signs of bad temper recently. At nights when she is high from playing, she'll shout. If I ask her not to shout, she might be quiet for 30 seconds, before making noise again. I am impatient, on 3rd warning, I will tell her "If you shout again, I will beat you!"
Sometimes she will unwillingly moves to a corner and sit there with black face.
Sometimes she raises her hand and wanted to beat me! And that really set me "on". I would beat hard on her hand, let her know how painful it is to be beaten. In the last few days, she likes to scream when unhappy/crying, with super high pitch tone. I gave her a few slaps.
I told my mother inlaw since long ago to not spoil Bibi. Kids need to be educate since little, else it's very hard to correct their bad characteristics after 3 years old. I hate rude kids. But, will corporal punishment prevent Bibi from turning into a spoiled kid?
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